Friends or Family

That day when i was chatting wif my secondary school friend, we came across this topic.. "friends or family".Which side would u choose,between friends OR family?? (you cant choose two..only ONE ) She said that she rather want family more than friends.. She said that if her world is without friends,it would be more happier.. =.=Seriously, are you mad?? whats so fun wif family?? She said that, mabe i am not close wif my family.. Yeah, mabe...? Lets talk about my "happy family".. I have a father, a mother, an elder brother, n 2 younger brothers....

Lets start wif my father. My father ( a.k.a the working machine.. =P )... A family couldnt survive without a strong and stable "pole" supporting its little sticks rite? =P Yeah, i have to agree that hes indeed a hardworking breadwinner in the house.. But everyday hes working.. even have to work on sundays.. He goes to work at 8 in the morning and comes home at 9.30 (if there wer no other activities like meeting his business partners or smthing ) If there wer, he would be home at about 11.30 or 12.. sometimes even after 12.. We seldom has a chance to sit in the same table and have dinner together or have the chance to even say gudnite.. When hes at home, we wouldnt have much of a conversation.. Usually when we do, he will be doing his lecture and i'll be the "attentive student" (put on my head phone and : "wth?? u talking to me?? or my bros??" ) He never talks to us about our things or what happen in our school or smthing... All he cares are : 1) houseworks 2)studies 3)future 4)and his work...Whenever he has alot of stress on his work, hell just release his frustations on us.. ( We'r Innocent, man!!!!) Sometimes, ill use my "ultimate skill" on him -- ask a stupid question or try to change the topic.. XD ( it works, Sometimes... =.= )
One thing that i hate abt him is that he smokes, but funny that he doesnt drink( he Dont drink bear/wine/liquor.. not even a sip of it =.=)..There was once, we Bet on my SPM results. He said that if i got 5A or above, hell quit smoking.. In the end? Arrrrrrrrrrrrggg...!!! I got 4 only!!!!!!!! T_T Too bad, but i think he wouldnt stop even if i got 5A la.. lol.. XD

My mother,the kind and loving one...Well, shes also a businessman like my dad.. oops, a business woman, i should say.. =P Sometime shes to 7+1 about our things, but nvm la~~ ill discuss almost everything wif her..shes a gud listener and a gud suggester... Oways comes to a conclusion..But i hate it when she couldnt agree something wif dad..(because she always stands on her own opinion. -.- )


Then theres my elder bro..Hes 1 yr older than me..Hes currently studyin form6 (i know, wow rite? Form6 isnt a place for humans to stay.. XD ) I remember when we were small, we used to play basketball togetheror do watever stuffs together.. I would never forget the times.. That time was when we were in primary school... The times when we used to play basketball at the court outside our house..Sometimes well also go to our friends court and join them to play..( its not far, so usually we walk there.. =P ) Haizz~ Those times, those memories.. just inexplicable... Now?? all he cares are his gf and the petrol in his car... :P Did i missed out anything?? Ooh ya, his credit in his mobile.. XD Now, whenever i ask him out to play ball or going gym (at least to accompany me or drive me there), hes best words are : "duwan la, lazy.." Wish we were still small,so i can still be wif him whenever we do anything..


At last, My younger bros..One is 15 and another is 13..Their activities at home? Theyll do anything just to sit infront of the computer..Hey! Guess what, they could even secrifice their meals just to play the damn thing... cool?? I wonder how they cope their studies... Nahh... in their minds, studies are what?? just a thing my dad oways whining abt.. =.= Sometimes i wonder what r they gonna do when they finish their schooling lives..As a bro, we should sometiems consider'em rite??

Haiz.. nvm la~ as a bro, its my duty to rear them in future(when i finish my degree n found a job) ..lol... XD
So...in a Nut Shell, ill choose friends for now.... Who knows, mabe my familys lifestyle will change?? :( I dunno.. but ill do my best to bring my family closer together, Thast for sure~~ :)