how to tell that She is into You?

First of all, I'm seeking for advise in this post, not giving solutions.

So there was i, being kinda random at this moment... but since i have no place to share this, might as well put it in my blog and hopefully Jesus will read my post. Always being the tough ones, i, sometimes have to bow down and seek for answers... so The question is how do you know that She is into You?

So it was Saturday night, i called her to fix us a date... Or maybe not that straightforward. I told her she could call some friends if she want to. But in the end, it was just the 2 of us being present..

We had a splendid moment before that, or maybe its just me... Although its been the first time I've ever went out with that girl, solo before.. It is quite an awkward, but kinda romantic, humor and cute moment, at one point... We watched a movie at a shopping mall and i remember the movie was 12 midnight. We couldn't get the chance to watch some horror movie (u know what i mean, guys love to show their manly hood by proving that they have no fears and they could lend their shoulders to the girl to hide behind when the scary part comes in.) Anyway plan ruined.... all tickets were fully booked.. and i personally don't like horror stuffs, so i think i kinda suck at bringing girls for movie on a date.

It doesn't consider a date if you ask me... but it really seems like one.... Cuz we were alone at that moment... just the 2 of us. But we never really hold hands or hug... I don't think i have the guts to do so. Usually guys takes the initiative to take the first move. Guess i just need more time to sort out my feelings for her or from her... maybe its all just a misunderstanding and shes being nice...

So there were we, after the movie.. we went for supper.. Cuz i was told that she hadn't had dinner before she came.. Well, this is a good opportunity for me to actually get to spend more time with her than just fetching her back and say "bye". So yeah, i took her to a Mamak place and we had supper... Well, im the one having, she was never really hungry. Or maybe the Shisha is more interesting than foods to her.. So we went there and meet up with her friends, settle down and yeah.. chill out... ;)

Nothing special going on it seems, just few of us.. chilling out, till 3 in the morning and then its time for us to take a leave. Something funny happened back there when we were leaving... I mean us, not inclusive of her friends. Somehow deep down inside, i got have this feeling that, although I've never been with her or know her for long.. But its just that, i trust her... So... yeah something happened.... and it was damn hilarious. She was ok with it, just sucked a little at first.


Yeah, so it was bout 3 something when we reached her house...
Park outside of one of her neighbors' house.. and we dared each other to stay in the car and chit chat till morning. So we chat and chat, somehow i can sense that shes getting tired, and im getting tired, mentally.. Physically active and awake... I tried to tell her how i feel about her, but i don't think it works this way on her. Maybe I'm being too emotional as i seldom does in front of other girls. And so, constantly I've been trying to change the subject when time turns awkward for the both of us. She is actually quite dumb to fall for that. Or i must say I'm the smart one. ;)

Well, verbally, i failed. So at some point i wanna show my feelings through expressions and physical. But i think this is the dumbest thing i have ever done. So the whole time I've been trying and trying... maybe not all the time, we shared some stories too at that time. And all these happened in my car, can u imagine that? = =

I've never done that in my hole entire life b4.. I mean, yeah I've tried not sleeping, but right after what i was doing.. i literally fainted like a dead corps. But after going through the moment, i actually was not tired at all. And amazingly i felt great and energetic after that.

So in the end. But it haven't reach the Ends end yet.. There is still a turning point there, just that i haven't reach that point yet. Or maybe i had passed the point and is really heading for the End.... But deep down in my mind, i know i've tried my best. and now, I think I'm planning to give up on her.. its not worth putting efforts on when i think back all the words that she said. Maybe things are not what it seems. Maybe she hinted me on something, but I'm just not thinking hard enough.... Its just like a virtual battlefield. Pushing your mind powers to the edge of a cliff; im trying my best. but somehow it seems i sucked at being that Me that night. Trying to win this war is not easy, and backing down is one of my options.


Jesus, help me please?

2 main factors in life that one should HAVE

People, i know its kinda sudden to hop back into this blog, but i suddenly has this inspiration in me to share this wonderful discovery in life.... which, probably most of u had already known of. (Be optimist!!!!)
No, non of u out there know about it!! yeah thats right...!!! So listen up... and give yourself 5.30 minutes for this.

People... the Great 2 words..... "Dream" and "Believe..." okay, maybe i shouldn't mention the 2 at the beginning of my post. That way, at least i can still retain half of my readers out there to actually continue reading the remaining half of this post. :(


Too bad, once written consider sold ;) So people....
Have you ever........
no thats not how the way i want to start my long speech like the millions of people out there... well, i'll start off with me, myself as a subject. I am a big dreamer. Dreamer who dreams big, and also sometimes a Day dreamer... Which, satisfied my first factor of the "to have" in life.

People always say dream and u will achieve... well, people... bull shit... i dream of everything in life.... but what if im a coward to actually do those things.... so theory proven wrong.. back to mine :)

To dream is important, it gives u a way.. a path to walk on... a direction.... so that u now where u are actually heading when doing something. With this dream, u can actually do many things. Imagine you, without a dream... will you on your computer everyday search for blogs to read, facebook and see whether any new friends out there.. or google some things that u want to know... or to read a news regarding something that had happened? All these starts off with a dream, it may be a small dream. But without it, will all of these actually happened?
u will probably just be thinking that all the blogs in the world wont interest you, or if there is, u will have already read before. The rest are bull shits and annoying talks about people talking bout their lives.... Or in facebook, the same old friends are always there. no one would actually realize me out there. So why bother to open it? its just like every usual day where u sign in, see the news feed, "nothing new...", then alt + f4.... Okay, dont want to stress too much on this. The fact is, when u actually dream, even if its a tinny tiny dream, u would actually take the initiative to start something in life.... cuz u believe that something is out there that is waiting for u to accomplish.....! like the facebook thing, u believe that something is out there... so u would log on, browse this browse that, and walla~~~ a pretty picture in one of your friends friendlist just waiting for you to add!!! HaHa... Thats me, don't know bout you guys... ;)

So with a Dream, everything starts... Easy rite??!! Just like a snap of a finger! :) and whats NEXT? "Believe.." Believe is how u keep things going with how u dream off it... How many of you out there would actually believe? maybe some, maybe not.. I shall give a real life example of me in my daily lives.... one day i was playing basketball with my friends out there..... So there was "Dickhead", he passed me this ball and, in the split of a second, i have 2 choices... pass it out or take the shot... Now, how many of you out there would actually take the shot? (Honestly, not as in jsut take it without thinking of the consequences) well.. certiris paribus.... (which means taking all other factor into constant in Economics terms) the person marking you is nowhere near you, and by right u should take the shot at that time.... well, i take the shot, jsut because i have to... and not because i want to... And with the thought of letting Faith or Jesus show me my future... :) cuz deep down i know i cant make the shot, i was never a shooter.. just a lucky guy who sometimes manage to 'luck' my balls in.... So, pomm!!! the ball did not enter. Well, thats the whole story. If i would have believed in me, took the shot like i usually did when i was practicing... with the use every single fiber in my muscles to shoot that bloody ball.. and of a 101% of my concentrations, and taking out everything that i was thinking at that moment, and focusing on the strength and directions... wind: altitude 85 degrees to east e.g.... and the hair flipped to the right side, clearing the sweat that is hanging on the end of my hair..... (actually looks kinda cool in slow-mo. U know, like those in the movies) giving me just the right vision to take the shoot.... and with that One breath.... the ball Might have entered.... or I would fail without hesitations :)

Well, do correct me but.. all of those bullshits i said before i make the shot. All of it, will it happen if i wouldn't have believed in myself? if i wouldn't believe in myself, like what i did, i would just shoot a random ball and hoping it would go through the net...


So people... try to visualize and analyze what these 2 word actually means and then try to apply them into your daily lives... even if it is offing the monitor just for 5 seconds and open the dusty window to have some fresh air... or take a jog out in the park (even if u have never done it before.. just believe that u can and dream that what u are doing outside is actually perfectly normal and fine) Dont sue me if something unexpected happened. u nvr dream about it... ur fault :(
Haha...im sure it would make you feel much better.....

Cuz my daddy said so :)

When 24 hours in a day is not enough

When things in your life seem , almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class
And had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - family,
children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.

The sand is everything else --The small stuff.

'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.

So...

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play With your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.

'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

A piece of good advise,
Dunno how true but no harm giving it a try !!!!!


If you should ever be forced by a robber to withdraw money from an ATM
machine, you can notify the police by entering your Pin # in reverse.

For example if your pin number is 1234 then you would put in 4321. The ATM
recognizes that your pin number is backwards from the ATM card you placed
in the machine.

The machine will still give you the money you requested, but unknown to the
robber, the police will be immediately dispatched to help you.
This information was recently broadcasted on TV and it states that it's
seldom used because people don't know it exists..
Please pass this along to everyone possible.


如果有一天你面对劫匪要你到提款机提款，记得不要反抗，照他的指示，不过当你按你的密码时要从后面按起，如123456，你就按654321，提款机会照样出钱，可是劫匪万万想不到警方会立刻获得通知来协助你。
这个系统很少人用所以都被人们遗忘了。。。。

请传给你关心的人。。。。。

(forwarded tru hotmail)

Hong Kong - Damn cool.. seriously!!

You should check this out. Christina sent the link to me just an hour ago. It's a picture of Hong Kong(move the mouse as the sky changes its color). Truly amazing, the scenery is just fantastic...

http://61226.com/share/hk.swf


See for yourself :)

Good nite guys...

Imperfection

Something i read that was forwarded by Cass, i find it quite fascinating. Do enjoy reading it :


Embracing Imperfection

"When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food. And I
remember one day, she had madebreakfast after hard work.

On that day, my mom placed a plate of eggsand extremely burned toast in
front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my
dad did was reach for his toast, and smiled at my mom. I don't remember what
I told him, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on
that toast and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my
dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: "Baby, I
love burned toast.:

Later, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really
liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your momma
put in a hard work today and she's real tired. And besides, a little
burnt toast never hurt anyone! You know, life is full of imperfect
things.....and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook
myself." He continued “What I've learned over the years is that
learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each
other's differences - is the one of the most important keys to creating
a healthy, growing, and lasting marriage relationship.”

And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the
good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet
of GOD. Because in the end, He's the only one who will be able to give
you a marriage where burnt toast isn't a deal-breaker!

We could extend this to any relationship in fact - as understanding is
the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or
siblings or friendship!! --
With Love




"Intelligence is like underwear. It is important that you have it, but
not necessary that you show it"

"Time is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice, because
the flow that has passed will never pass again... Enjoy every moment of
life"

ATM Passwords kena Hack

As a reminder to those people who uses IC/ID/Tell. number/Address/ anything related to personal info....
please change your password. There has been a case happened in our uni where one of our classmate's money of RM5,200 got stolen (ATM cash).

It happened one perfect and ordinary day where unexpected things are least expected to happen. She, my classmate, went to the library. As rules stated, bags are supposed to put outside of the library where there are shelves provided.

So, yeah.. she left her bag there (with purse and everything inside) You can guess what happened next... But thats not it, she came out after 10 minutes to check on something. **She said she felt something's not right... (6 sense... 0.0)** And realize everything was perfectly fine... purse was there, money untouched, ic, card, bla bla bla....

After few days when she wanna buy something, went to the ATM and 'gam lui'. Realized that her money was withdrawn till dry. Hows it possible? i don't know. Then she called up the bank to ask and they said the last 5 transect ion was made at that day, that time when she went to the library (within that 10 minutes).


okay, so lets make a wild assumption. The thieve knows her ATM password (might be someone close), or that he is that lucky to somehow guessed correctly. (for your info: 6 digits with a permutation and combination of probabilities, its over a 1,000,000 chances of getting the correct password)


So after 1 month, she came into class 1 day. Announced this matter and asked if the one who took it would return it back to her or this matter will be brought to the police to solve. Added on, she said that 'luckily' the ATM captured pictures of the culprit. So..... (u and i know its just for threatening the thieve to hand out the money) But.. come on man, u suspect your closest and only friend?? your own class mates??? BTw, our class is only about a hand full of 13 people. Plus 1 or 2 that were absent throughout the whole semester. I was shocked and in the state of stunned and speechless that day. Trying to solve this matter and also trying to figure out why she would suspect us, her close friends.


So, there are few issues i wanna raise here:
1) why she leave her valuables outside the library and not with her?
2) why her password is known by someone else?
3) why after 1 month only she announced this?
4) why us???
5) why u???


so according to issue (1), there were many announcements and notice given stated that 'Students please do not leave their valuables, especially WALLET AND PURSE, outside the library as there are many cases of theft at that area.' And, as a normal civilian born with common sense and brains, will u leave your belongings outside?? So im guessing that she accidentally left it outside and after 10 minuted when she realized it, she went back out to take it. (too late mua fren -___- )

the (2) issue, her password. Usually when she goes to the ATM, there would be a close friend standing next to her. So, either her close friend knows her password or that her password is easily guessed. (eg. 111111 or something related to u that is ALSO in the purse) As a 19 year old, you should know what is protect personal passwords right?? (assume) The law wont protect those who are 18 above (known as major), the law will only protect those who are Minors(<18). So please, know your own responsibilities.

the (3) issue. why one month? the case also becomes less hot already. This, i can only make an assumption that she was observing us with a one month period. To find out who has the most suspicious face and who is the real culprit. Childish... -____-

The (4) and (5) issue i put for fun.. lol
But seriously, why us?? u left it outside the library, everyone can gain access to your belongings. The security guard wont recognize who's stuffs is who's. So u cant simply assume it was your own classmates who did that. (wa kalu kua wa tong waeh jiki o0o) XD



Well, my whole deduction to this crime is:
1) when she enters into the library, someone was beside her (acting like he is also taking stuffs preparing to enter the library)
2) when she enters into the library, the guy calls out his accomplice to search the bag as he watches the girls every move.
3) the accomplic goes to the ground floor ATM to start trying. First by trying out the IC number. (so lucky, the password is the IC number.)
4)jackpot, but 1 transaction only can make RM1,500. So he made 4 which is a total of RM4,500. The fifth transaction is Rm700. Gone!! RM5,200...
5) As his friend is in the library with her, or outside checking if she comes out or not, calls his friend to come return the purse with nothing touched in it.
6) So all along they were aiming for the ATM money and not the cash in it. Smart... and a perfect crime, cuz they were lucky to guessed correctly the password =______=




Conclusion, i think that the ATM photo shit is a fake. ATM's usually has this small mirror in front of you for u to see who is behind of you (its actually a 1 way glass where inside can see out, but from the outside u just see a plain mirror. So the camera is hidden inside the mirror) Another is that there will be a CCTV on top of the screen where its visible. Our campus ATM has none of that, so u know the answer lah...
Imagine, if she really had it, she would just use the pic to find out who is the thief. And therefore, every issue points to her fault. Carelessness is all i can say. i don't think she can get it back, even the police cant do anything... Finger print check?? 1 month already, the purse will be full of her own finger prints by that time. So, in the end...
It's a perfect crime... :(



The moral of this story, do not use your personal information as your password. People are not dumb, they will use any method possible to get what they want. Hope you all receive the message and all the best. Protect and safeguard your belongings, Thank you :)